Potatoism

下午从OMAHA回来,也没想过我还会去那个地儿,不过因为这个人

回来的路上听后面的黑人哥们的话,才意识到原来刚刚站在我前面不到一米,喝着coke cherry的老人就是巴非特.

"Dude, you know Jay-Z, and he is rich. This man is like 200 times as rich, and he spent 4 hours standing there talking to us and take pictures with each of us. think about that."

自有富贵鲜福泽,有些不自知的东西,也许只有像我这样坐得很近的时候才会发现,除了耳朵很大以外,就是他那双眼睛,他每次瞄到我,我心中的疑惑就自然消失了. 一双60年也没有变过的眼神, 见证了大起与大落,仍然有一种坚定与童真. 我似乎明白,为什么有人会花100万美元来坐下来与他吃饭了. 我自以为自己很会看人,我会看着一个人,然后察觉出他的自信与虚张, 长大的环境,养成的习惯或是受过的伤害留下的那么一点点儿沧桑. 可是当我看着巴非特, 我觉得我自己的眼神里面都在闪着光,而这光竟是他的眼神映在我眼中的. 他说,一个人的人生的辉煌是他周围所有人的光芒叠加在自己身上, 是五光十色的. 我很敬佩他与Charlie的那种深刻的伙伴关系. 总之,想来想去,感觉是没办法分享的.

 

i know many of you use this all the time, so cool...web MSN etc...

 

a live chicken....you can ask him to do anything for you. kindaof dumb but it amazes me

P.F. Chang's

今天中午吃的,特别的好,用餐环境不错,菜又好吃,可以说是最好的中餐

就在southpoint对面的那个广场里面

春节好!

今天在上课的时候,拿着电脑,盯着角落里面小小的屏幕,虽然没有声音,看着航天员们拿着鲜花,知道了是倒数的时刻,总之,新的一年到了,而且多少还有点儿年味儿呢~

每逢佳节倍思亲,有个家,就像有一只手支撑着自己,永远都不需要回头看,就可以感觉到无比的勇气. 爸爸妈妈辛苦了一年了,能过个热热闹闹的新年,这比起之前的几年已经好了很多了,所以2007年真的是不错的一年呢,感觉猪头猪脑的,没了烦心事.

鼠来宝,鼠来宝.恭喜发财,万事如意!

朋友呢,要志趣相投,不能强求的. 人各有志,难免分道扬镳,可以玩在一起,可是一辈子的朋友,通常也要懂得一起吃苦,一起享乐,有人倒下了,多少伸只手拉扯拉扯吧.总之朋友不是认识得越久就越是好友,但也不是第一印象越好就越搭拍.应如涓涓细流,又如江海拍石...与人为乐,与可爱之人,代人行善,善必加之.

理解呢,是个做不到的东西. 人只能理解自己吧,而这个自己通常还只是一个idealized self.缺乏现实. keep hungry, keep thinking, keep humble

人在大学期间,是需要聚在一起的来形成这个发展阶段所需要的个人实现的需求(当然还有求偶...), 但也是这个阶段, 人最重要的是找到自己的理想, life's too short, impossible to start over...

希望呢,有的人说不要抱有任何希望,这样如果希望变成失望,也就没什么好失望的了. 可是我说,我不关心结果,我只想要永远抱着希望,希望是炉火,一旦点燃就很难熄灭,但是早晚也会熄灭的,只是剩下的是真金白银还是炉灰,不过其实也无所谓...

过年了,你应该在哪儿呢? 要跟最爱的人一起度过呢

 

cool site

Feb!

Long's been, things've changed.

 

Reviewing Psychology.

Karen Horney states that people search for security while having these neurotic trends that can be generalized as the compliant personality, the hostile personality and the detached personality.

which is that when facing conflicts within interpersonal relationship, people seeks moving toward, against or away from other people.

 

Moving towards people--morbid dependency, "poor little me", self subordination/martyrdom, need for love

Moving against people--narcissistic or arrogant-vindictive, need to be right, need for recognition

Moving away from people--resignation, emotional distance between self and others, self-independent &independence, need for privacy

 

you know what'm saying? suuuuuuckers!

多么坚强的心也有被击碎的时候

 

所有活着的人,我们都输了...人生真他妈的烂

 

然后等到有一点点快乐,就又会把所有难耐都忘了,人怎么那么贱? 真的只要有一点点快乐就满足了

Steven Colbert

I am American (and so can you)

 

a cute funny saturday afternoon fat burner

 

loving it

晚上12点了,在perkins...老多人了

今天在疯帽人服用咖啡时...突然发现...原来我是爱草莓酱的

人啊都在东奔西跑的,而我在这小小的durham,真是前后不得翻身啊

低调的奢华就是自己最懂怎样对自己好,可是其他人是怎么看都看不出来的,就像是读一本男性生活态度的杂志,他不能教你做什么,但是自己感觉感觉嘛

追求的就是streetfashion, tres chic~

昨天在WashDu吃饭的时候,讨论到一个问题

美国人怎么都那么business looking啊? 环顾四周,每个人都好像有几百亿的那种感觉,可是non of them is important, they are like in their mid-30s..senior managers fighting agains middle-age crisis

然后最近突然发现自己真的太妖了...真可谓不拘一格啊...

所以就赶快回家吧,让自己双脚落地的安心的睡上几天,外出的游子真所谓"人在江湖漂啊,谁能不挨刀啊"

也就是因为3个人从来没怕过什么,也算是一起长大了吧

你说现在我还能玩5块钱一局的吗?

这个学期很没意思

到期末的时候就发现...什么也没做...

 

就玩来玩去也玩不出个花样,今天上课讲安乐死...我觉得这样下去这个就是我的终点了...

 

所以快点给我来点儿好玩的吧,现在手头上的东西太容易腻了

我生日的第2天,下午2点10分,还有50分钟就要去上法语课了

我在等一些东西,虽然不能说是焦急吧...因为手头儿的活儿很多...可是有点恼...就发现自己的字迹也不知不觉的潦草了

可是也真的不能比这样更快了

想一想有那么多事情,在很短的时间内都被我给凑合在一起了,严丝密合,似乎本来就是一个整体

无聊的时候跟电脑打日本麻将,突然发现现在的情况,如Ken所描述的,就叫做"单骑待", lichi or single wait...

似乎还有半局了...这副牌我胡什么呢?

Owen:

 

So an example about Singer's Utilitarism: Say a terrorist bomber put a huge bomb in the downtown of greensboro and he calls me to sacrifice Alex to save...like a couple of thousands of people...and the method he asks specifically is to torture him first...like cut off his ears..something.....OK, let's make this more graphic...say we cut his eyes off one by one.............................

遇到问题,解决问题

很多人整容了...所有人发型都好奇怪...哥们们都好幸福...讨厌的人都很惨...整理完毕...

 

Just think about it...how many times in your life have you been through a one out of a hundred draw? isn't that amazing?

I am with 95% confident that I am better than 99% men out there in a variety of areas, and lay on average for many other areas.

 

嘴角烂了...人也老了...不好看了...瘦了...身材也勉强撑一撑...偶尔的轻量运动比起长期的剧烈运动对身体更好...

 

心情呢...是可以妥协的...如果不能太高兴...就妥协着活着吧...只是面临着严重的不平衡...

Could be the biggest mistake I made in my life. It looks nice though, but I am worrying that too many people will get my look. Fair price...230 USD, i rarely wear cheap stuff...you know

Owen:

At the beginning of the world, there is nothing. And God says: let there be light. So there is light, but still nothing. Just that you can see better.

 

Descartes has proven that there is really nothing we can be so sure about. So we are shutting down all departments at Duke, and there is nothing to major in except for philosophy.

 

Research in homos (closest related animals to us humans) have shown some interesting social phenomena. If one group has attacked another, the other group may not come back to take a revenge immediately. But when they are well-prepared, they may actually come back and eat one of your children.

 

So we are homos and we are in a quarrel. Another homo(male or female) comes just to calm us down. And what he/she will do is that he/she touches our genitals...and this is sexual healing.

 

The Confucians use the word 子 , meaning master, so I call one of my fellows Dr. Wong 王子, and she calls me Confusion.

 

So now you got something to say for your Thxgiving dinner. Mom and Dad, I am wondering if I exist.